Showing posts with label How To's. Show all posts
Showing posts with label How To's. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

The Stages of Changing a Behavior

A Person Must be Ready, Willing and Able to Change

Change - The process in which people think about, implement and maintain new behaviors (Prochaska and DiClemente, 1984).


The 5 stages have been applied to people who modified behaviors related to:
  • Smoking
  • Drinking
  • Eating
  • Exercising
  • Parenting
  • Substance Abuse and Dependence
  • Marital Communications (without a professional) 

The Five Stages of Change:

1. Pre-contemplation - Person not really considering change and do not see anything changing in the future.

2. Contemplation - Person becomes aware that a problem exists and begin to see that there are reasons to change. They begin thinking about their options.

3. Preparation - Person begins to investigate into how to change their behavior. They make decisions about what is needed to change and set goals for themselves. This is the stage where the plan to change is often shared with others'.

4. Action - A person chooses a strategy to change and begins to put it into action. The individual is actively modifying their behavior.

5. Maintenance - A person continues to make an effort to sustain the positive aspects that came from the action stage. Maintenance requires prolonged behavioral change, often 6 months to several years, depending on the targeted behavior (Prochaska and DiClemente, 1992).

In most cases, people attempting long-term behavior changes do relapse, at least once and revert to an earlier stage. When this happens, the person may repeat the steps necessary to implement the change into their lives again. This can be used as a learning experience as to which situations may need to be avoided to prevent diverting back to an undesired behavior.

Not too many people are able to implement these stages one time and not have any relapses of themselves before their change. A relapse should not be thought of as a fail but as an opportunity to start fresh and stronger.

The pace at which an individual moves through the stages is relative to the behavior attempting to be modified and the desired outcome.

Sources: U.S. Department of Health and Human Services TIP 35, www.samhsa.gov


Wednesday, November 7, 2012

How to be Happy!


How to be Happy 

“A Man is as happy as he makes up his mind to be.” 
~Abraham Lincoln 

Happiness is a perception based upon an individual’s thought process (it is different for everyone). 

The amount of happiness we get from an event or experience depends upon what we are comparing it to at the time. 

OLD Phone
NEW Phone





Examples: 

Receiving a check for $100 when you usually earn $200 – You could view this as a less than happy event thinking that you should have earned more because that is what happened in the past OR you could be happy that you have just gotten a check for $100 when in the past you have gotten less. 




Examples: Clothing/Apparel mark-downs $49 to $20 




Cars – Your last car verses a new car 

Events – What you do for your Birthday compared to what you have done/experienced before 



A study by Psychologist Ed Deiner found that happiness comes from the amount of time a person spends feeling good, not from the momentary peaks of ecstasy. 


- We should enjoy the little/everyday things, not just the big events. 




Remembering bad things from the past has a contrast effect; makes our present seem brighter. 

Positive thinking – Try to focus your thoughts and perceptions to increase happiness. 

- Generally happy people filter out the bad things and focus on the good:)




         
         

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

How to Reduce Pain and Suffering and Feel Better Fast



A persons perception of pain is created by the individual experiencing the pain. This means, even though you are experiencing a certain amount of discomfort, the amount of suffering that occurs is up to your thought pattern.




If an individual manipulates their thoughts to believe their pain is less severe, the pain will subside. On the other hand, when an individual is stressed, upset or experiencing other psychological problems their pain level will, most likely, be higher.



The take-a-way from this information is, you can control your level of discomfort by changing their thinking.

Tips:


  • Take a long hot bath to relax your body


  • Listen to your favorite soothing music to drift off into a somber state


  • Zone out by day dreaming of your fantasy vacation spot



  • Imagine yourself as fully healthy, strong and capable of overcoming anything you desire



  • Look at photographs that are of great times of joy



  • Watch comedy movies



  • Make a list of everything you are grateful for



  • Whenever you feel yourself experiencing pain or thinking negatively, stop yourself and immediately go to one of your "happy places"



*Keep these ideas handy & maybe have your gratitude list close by

*Once you change your way of thinking, your pain will surely subside

Monday, October 3, 2011

Ways To Improve Your Mood and Help Depression

Ways To Improve Your Mood and Help Depression

Here is an article I have just finished. I have worked very hard to put together a resource for anyone suffering from Depression and would like to know some steps they can take to feel better.

I searched a great deal on how to feel better or improve Depression and the results I found were minimal. This prompted me to put together this article. It is my intention to help people improve their mood.

You do not have to be diagnosed with Depression to enjoy the benefits of this article. Anyone can utilize this information to feel better in their lives.

I hope you like my article and find it useful. Thank you for reading:)